思考+勤奋

    从四川成都回来后我一直有些体会。给我留下印象最深的就是一位70多岁的老大爷给我摸骨算命，其实算不上什么算命，只是一个幌子而已，只不过他的话里验证了我想得到的。工作半年来，思想混乱，想得太多太乱，以至于自己办事没有主心骨，不爱动脑筋，得过且过的思想一直伴随我。对文件不研究，对政策不把握，被工作推着往前走，十分被动。

   自我把思想禁锢是最可怕的事情，我活在自己制定的不变世界里，不喜欢进取，不喜欢问问题，脑子一动，心就烦燥。无法体现出自己一个职业人士的素养。解放思想，给自己一个自由的思考空间才是根本，放弃这一根本无异自杀。想起士兵突袭里的一句话 不抛弃 不放弃。关键是不能放弃自己随波逐流。各项工作光靠怕是没有的，依赖领导决定更是错误，作为一个主管干事举一反三才能合适自己的角色，角色失位则信誉全失。一定紧记，不能放松。

   坚持目标强调自己应该提出自己的目标，朝这个目标去努力，工作才有动力。做一个成功的领导很难，但是不能因为这种难让自己退却。与其长立志不如立长志，就把自己当作领导看待，即使当不了领导，但这段奋斗的经历一定精彩，标准自己定好又何必在乎结果。一个很简单的道理就是立志做将，干从兵起。遇事不思考，不分析，不了解行业信息何谈进取，何谈人生！

    工作就该有动力，思考一定要有活力，写作一定要有定力。事事不绝，时时不怠。

你一定要完成你的任务

美少女也会永远祝福你,新的起点新的开始,幸福就在前方等你^_^

你是上帝派来帮助我的,真的,你我的相遇是命中注定,即使没有结果,但我们有完美的故事,完美的让人不敢相信的故事,终身难忘

我是一个非常依赖的人,之所以能这么平静的面对失去依靠的感觉,是因为你,成为了我精神上的依靠

wish have a good dream tonight

i can't forget you

if you can forget me, forget as you wish.don't be sad

你一定要幸福,别忘了我们是相连的

你的婚礼让我参加吧,我想看到你幸福的表情我才能放心

star对我说，5年后长岛见。我们都喜欢海边，喜欢蓝色，喜欢自由自在。尤其star，她是个水做的女孩。一点点感动都能让她落泪。因为容易感动，所以容易恋爱；因为单纯，所以简单。她象水一样透明，象水晶一样亮丽。我会把她发在心底。今天晚上的列车，把我们推向两个车站。。。。

  我第一次遇见你，就像是遇见自己的妻子一样。一种关怀的冲动涌上心头，让我想去呵护你。对我来说我的感受在你心里，那里有我想要的答案。不知道你有没有听说过，不用恋爱的相逢。我想我遇到了，和你好像早已相识而不用再矫揉造作的拿爱、拿感受当幌子。不论你将来会嫁给谁，其实在我心里我也会给你留下个空间，让你安安静静的呆在那里等着我，陪着我。人有的时候能偷偷的暗恋一个人---纯粹是种幸福。这个物质的社会越来越失去感情。金钱可以买来美女，但买不来一份涩涩的暗恋。我的心逐渐会随着我的成长封闭，不会再有什么刻骨铭心的事情进入我的内心了。敞开心扉是种享受，关闭心门是种残酷的成熟。总有一天我们都会选择后者。这个世界上每一个陌生人都有故事，每一个人都会找到适合自己的，也会遇见自己最爱的。当遇见自己最爱的人的时候，一定要珍惜时间好好对待他。当遇见自己最适合的人的时候，一定要珍惜生命的感情。亲情和爱情是对儿孪生兄弟，兄弟不和不会有好日子过的。大学四年无论你是玩过来的，还是学过来的，总之都是你经历过来的，多年后都会由发酵的记忆酿造出来幸福。幸福是什么？现在在你的年龄阶段是不会看出来的，岁月是什么？你现在能感受到的也是无奈。所以有些人想发明超时空的恋爱，让自己爱上别的时代的人。其实无非是一些人的感情避难所。
    我的经历和过去的岁月告诉我，不可能像学生时代一样去爱一个人，去无所顾忌的恋爱了。有这么一个相识的机会我已经很满足了。把多余的爱放在心里，让自己多些动力去追求自己的理想。当自己累得时候我会让我自己和呆在我心里的你聊聊天，听听歌。一个人想要的伴儿就是一个知心朋友，她会在人生的道路上和你分享感受，体会幸福。
    你的路刚刚开始，也许你不再相信童话故事里的王子和公主。没什么可怕的，只要你心里有一个空间给王子，你总会和王子在一起的。如果自己的心里都没有空间给自己的爱找到地方，就是王子天天陪着你，你也会烦恼的。人世间总有一些力量在左右人的发展，天意和缘分；禅和佛；鬼怪和精灵；看似一个个不相干的事情，其实无非在告诉世人做事做人的道理。学会长大是方法，接受长大是心态。
    我能想到多年后你会成为一个好妈妈，你会把你的爱给孩子。到时候你就会发现，居然自己付给孩子的爱比自己情人还要多。你会认为自己很了不起居然爱也能这样付出，等孩子长大了，他们往往不会看到这份爱。孩子会认为这是亲情不是爱，你会认为他们不理解你。就像现在你不理解你的父母一样。
    呵呵 到最后发现最合适的却不能去爱，现实就是这么残酷，毕竟不是童话，时光就是这么无奈不给你机会去漫步游走。我好像在一个错误的车站碰上你，我背上行囊一路向北；而你收拾皮箱，一路向南。我向左，你向右。相遇就在这个车站，寥寥几句话，车快开了。祝福我心中的star旅途愉快，希望她这辈子再也不要到达伤心的站台。也祝福我自己早日到达我的幸福车站。为什么不欣赏沿途的风景呢？和你拉着手一起看沿途风景的人一定是最快乐的。
          我想起吉米---两条平行线虽然没有交汇的机会，但是在彼此孤单的时候都会鼓励对方勇往直前。

                    ---------------  幸福终点站-----

走了，starstar 祝你幸福。能和你认识是我的荣幸，虽然我只知道一个字，就这一个字足够了。人活一辈子也搞不懂两个字，一个是爱 一个是恨 。--该死的丘比特一定喝多了

1.         I count ALL my time as important time and try to get satisfaction (not necessarily accomplishment) out of every minute.
2.         I try to enjoy whatever I am doing.
3.         I??m a perennial optimist.
4.         I build on successes.
5.         I don??t waste time regretting my failures.
6.         I don??t waste time feeling guilty about what I don??t do.
7.         I remind myself: "There is always enough time for the important things." If it??s important, I??ll make time to do it.
8.         I try to find a new technique each day that I can use to help gain time.
9.         I get up early during the week (and go to bed early too).
10.     I have a light lunch so I don??t get sleepy in the afternoon.
11.     I don??t watch television except the very special programs that I really want to see.
12.     I examine old habits for possible elimination or streamlining.
13.     If I have to wait for something, I use the time as a chance to relax or do things I would not otherwise have done.
14.     I keep my watch set three minutes fast, to get a head start.
15.     I carry a small notebook with me to jot down notes and ideas.
16.     I revise my lifetime goals list once a month.
17.     I review my lifetime goals every day.
18.     I put up signs over my desk reminding me of my goals.
19.     I keep my long-term goals in mind even while doing the smallest task.
20.     I always plan my day and set priorities first thing in the morning.
21.     I keep a list of specific items to be done each day, or arrange them in priority order, and then do my best to get the important ones done as soon as possible.
22.     I schedule my time well in advance leaving plenty of open time that I can use for "hot projects."
23.     I give myself time off and special rewards when I??ve done the important things.
24.     I do first things first.
25.     I work smarter rather than harder.
26.     I have confidence in my judgment of priorities and stick to them in spite of difficulties.
27.     I ask myself, "Would anything terrible happen if I didn??t do this?" If the answer is "no," I don??t worry about it.
28.     If I seem to procrastinate I ask myself: "What am I avoiding"--then I try to confront the thing head-on.
29.     I start with the most profitable parts of large projects and often find it is not necessary to do the rest.
30.     I cut off nonproductive activities as quickly as possible.
31.     I give myself time to concentrate on high priority items.
32.     I have developed the ability to concentrate well for long stretches of time.  (Sometimes it takes lots of coffee.)
33.     I concentrate on one thing at a time.
34.     I focus my efforts on items that will have the best long-term benefits.
35.     I keep pushing and am persistent when I sense I have a winner.
36.     I have trained myself to go down my "Do List" without skipping over the difficult i

1.         I count ALL my time as important time and try to get satisfaction (not necessarily accomplishment) out of every minute.
2.         I try to enjoy whatever I am doing.
3.         I??m a perennial optimist.
4.         I build on successes.
5.         I don??t waste time regretting my failures.
6.         I don??t waste time feeling guilty about what I don??t do.
7.         I remind myself: "There is always enough time for the important things." If it??s important, I??ll make time to do it.
8.         I try to find a new technique each day that I can use to help gain time.
9.         I get up early during the week (and go to bed early too).
10.     I have a light lunch so I don??t get sleepy in the afternoon.
11.     I don??t watch television except the very special programs that I really want to see.
12.     I examine old habits for possible elimination or streamlining.
13.     If I have to wait for something, I use the time as a chance to relax or do things I would not otherwise have done.
14.     I keep my watch set three minutes fast, to get a head start.
15.     I carry a small notebook with me to jot down notes and ideas.
16.     I revise my lifetime goals list once a month.
17.     I review my lifetime goals every day.
18.     I put up signs over my desk reminding me of my goals.
19.     I keep my long-term goals in mind even while doing the smallest task.
20.     I always plan my day and set priorities first thing in the morning.
21.     I keep a list of specific items to be done each day, or arrange them in priority order, and then do my best to get the important ones done as soon as possible.
22.     I schedule my time well in advance leaving plenty of open time that I can use for "hot projects."
23.     I give myself time off and special rewards when I??ve done the important things.
24.     I do first things first.
25.     I work smarter rather than harder.
26.     I have confidence in my judgment of priorities and stick to them in spite of difficulties.
27.     I ask myself, "Would anything terrible happen if I didn??t do this?" If the answer is "no," I don??t worry about it.
28.     If I seem to procrastinate I ask myself: "What am I avoiding"--then I try to confront the thing head-on.
29.     I start with the most profitable parts of large projects and often find it is not necessary to do the rest.
30.     I cut off nonproductive activities as quickly as possible.
31.     I give myself time to concentrate on high priority items.
32.     I have developed the ability to concentrate well for long stretches of time.  (Sometimes it takes lots of coffee.)
33.     I concentrate on one thing at a time.
34.     I focus my efforts on items that will have the best long-term benefits.
35.     I keep pushing and am persistent when I sense I have a winner.
36.     I have trained myself to go down my "Do List" without skipping over the difficult i